Kent Valley Hockey Association

Check off the statements that apply to you.

• The safety of the participants in the game is more important than the final score.
• I value the contribution of the coach in developing the player’s talents, even though I may not always agree with their methods.
• I understand that officials do not make the hockey rules, they only apply them.
• I understand that children learn from adults, and my behavior reflects what I want children to learn.
• I understand that officials are responsible to ensure that the game is played in a safe and fair manner for all participants.
• I understand that players, coaches and officials are learning the game, and mistakes will be made in the learning process.
• I may not cheer for the opposition team, but I will also not cheer against them or verbally abuse them.
• I understand that the biggest reason for players and officials quitting the game is abuse.

(How did you rate? If you checked off 0-2 Step back and check your motives for being involved in the game; 3-4 on your way; 5-6 almost there; 7-8 outstanding)

• I will not force my child to participate in hockey.
• I will remember that my child plays hockey for his or her enjoyment, not mine.
• I will encourage my child to play by the rules and to resolve conflicts without resorting to hostility or violence.
• I will teach my child that doing one’s best is as important as winning, so that my child will never feel defeated by the outcome of a game / event.
• I will make my child feel like a winner every time by offering praise for competing fairly and trying hard.
• I will never ridicule or yell at my child for making a mistake or losing a competition.
• I will remember that children learn best by example.
• I will applaud good plays / performances by both my child’s team and their opponents.
• I will never question the official’s judgment or honesty in public.
• I will support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from children’s hockey activities.
• I will respect and show appreciation for the volunteer coaches who give their time to provide hockey experiences for my child.

10 WAYS TO BECOME A GOOD HOCKEY PARENT

• Get involved with your son or daughter's team in a positive way.
• Let your son or daughter know you enjoy having them involved with the game
• Don’t lose perspective; emphasize the values associated with the game.
• Be supportive and don’t let expectations become a burden to your son or daughter
• Model respectful behavior for your son or daughter.
• Be there for your child whether they win or lose.
• Make safety, respect, fair play and fun a priority.
• Support your child emotionally
• Encourage your child to participate but avoid pressuring them to play the game
• Communicate with your son's or daughter's coach in a professional effective manner.